Saturday, August 27, 2016

Today we went to Mexico

8/27/2016
Pretty much on the spur of the moment we decided to go to Mexico today - Gerald is out of allopurinol and it is going to take weeks for him to get the doctor appointment that is necessary in order to get a new prescription.  Not only that, there will be tests and all the related time and expense, so we decided to take a quick trip to Mexico where it can be bought over the counter in a local Farmacia.

It was such a beautiful drive - the roads were relatively quiet, especially once we left San Antonio. This year's second spring is arriving and both the Crepe Myrtles and the Texas sage is blooming beautifully.  The first spring earlier this year brought a multitude of blue, yellow and white flowers growing along the edges of the roads but this second spring (which seems to be brought on by the rains in late summer) brings with it broad swaths of Texas Sage alongside the road and field upon field of beautiful blossoms beyond that.

We were going to walk across the bridge into Mexico as it was only a couple of miles to where we knew of a Farmacia that has what we need, but decided that finding parking in Del Rio was not easy and anyhow we wanted a trial run to see how complex (or simple) it is going to be when we cross the border next year for the real adventure.

This turned out to be a good decision because it was a breeze, we just paid the toll on the USA side (a whopping $3.50 for the car) and once at the Mexican border post, got into the 'nothing to declare' lane and drove straight on through.  Of course this does raise the question about how/where are we going to get our Mexican car insurance and pay the necessary fees and get our Visado, but that is for another day, today was easy and fun.

The first big surprise was that our GPS (with only USA maps loaded) still actually worked in the heart of Acuna.  The second surprise, once we parked (much more easily than expected once we were off the 'main' road), it was much cleaner than we expected and there was a man busy sweeping the sidewalk where we wanted to park.  I was able to communicate with him enough for him to let me know that it was OK to park where we were - it looked confusing to us because there are a lot of little bumps built into the road, not painted lines demarcating parking spaces - apparently as long as you park anywhere within those little bumps you are OK.

So we parked just around the corner from the Farmacia that I had picked out this morning on a google map (having of course researched it and seen that they had what we need, at a reasonable price).  After a few moments of stage fright we started practicing our Spanish (thank you Memrise!) and managed to communicate what we were looking for (it also helped that I had written down the Mexican version of Allopurinal which is alopurinal, along with a brand name).  The next test was figuring out how many US Dollars the price came out to be.  At the end of our little 'conversation' we ended up walking out of Farmacia Del Nino with a 120 day supply for only $5.75 !  At the end of the day, 9 gallons of gas and $5.75 was an absolute bargain for a day 'abroad' in Mexico, lots of fun and education, amazing experiences and exorbitant doctors bills and lab tests etc.  What a bargain!
From here we drove around exploring and found that the streets are narrow with cars parked facing in both directions on either side of the road.  Look out for poorly maintained roads and sidewalks but mostly, there are a lot of one way streets that do not have any one way signs (that we could see anyhow).  We ended up driving the wrong way down a one way street and were kindly waved across by an oncoming motorist so that we realized our mistake.  Not a horn was to be heard, no rushing motorists, no road rage, just patient acceptance.  However, if I mention that there does not seem to be much of law enforcement and we saw at least one beat up car with Texas plates and an expired licence sticker (actually it expired in 2013) driving around, I guess that would explain the patient acceptance.  It doesn't really matter?

Our business completed, we drove and walked and generally explored - I had read about a supermarket called Gutierrez who farmacia had great prices, so we got Naggy (the GPS) to take us there.  After an adventure of several blocks, we finally ended up there and went exploring in the supermercado - this time we could not quite get clear about the price with the assistant and it sounded expensive so we left it - we will be back shortly before Gerald's supply runs out (we had bought the last of the stock that Farmacia Del Nino had).  We had great fun looking at all the strange and wonderful fruta y verdura en pastries and tarta.  The fruit and veggies actually didn't look too good - even though all the prices of groceries were very much better than here in the USA, the quality was poor - probably because all the good stuff is shipped to us and we get great quality here in TX at very reasonable prices.  Again, we had a lot of fun and feel that we learned the very small beginnings of life in Mexico.


One big lesson that I learned there, is look before you enter the rest rooms (banos or servicios).  Once I got into the toilet stall I realized that there was no paper, not even a holder of any sort for paper, so I tried the next stall but it was the same.  I left and was going to go to the car for tissues but as I looked around waiting for Gerald, I saw some people going into the bathroom but stopping first and taking paper from two big dispensers on the wall at the entrance to the area where the rest rooms were.  Now I know next time, look outside before going inside !

By now, it was time for lunch so we drove back into the central are where we had previously been - again, going around many back roads discovering lots of different architectural styles (?)  Naggy may have the map of Acuna but it is obviously way out of date and anyhow, only the major streets in the central district actually have name signs.  I am also very sure that there have been many renaming exercises between when our map was created and now.

We saw some fascinating sights and looking back, it was much quieter and cleaner that we had expected.  On our way to finding a local eatery that looked clean and inviting and frequented by locals, we saw the most amazing shoes (oh my those heels are like stilts) and of course the fantastic occasion dresses that looked like wedding cakes or something from an old movie's ballroom scene.

We found our lunch place after having passed it by once, we were walking back and took a second look and decided it was right for the day and for us.  We had another conversation and practiced our Spanish (not too bad this time) but during a conversation about water, I asked for tap water and thought that I had said something wrong but Gerald reminded me that we don't drink the water in Mexico so I requested una botella de agua and the camarera (waitress) smiled with relief.  Another lesson, another experience, followed by a great meal and a bill of only about $8 dollars for 2 big plates of food, a beer and a bottle of water !

Tired, happy and full of new experiences (and food), we decided to head for home - come on Naggy, take us home please.  Guess what, we ended up going around in what seemed like circles again and ended up going out of town on the opposite side to where we came in - I could see on the map that she appeared to be taking us out to the Rio Grand and then back along it to the International bridge.  OK, lets see where she takes us now, we always enjoy the unexpected and the scenic route.  It turns out that there is another bridge and (according to the border patrol lady) GPS systems always seem to use that crossing.  That bridge was at the top of the Amistad Dam and what a sight it was, it is amazing - a very, very quiet road, beautiful border post and an awesome view down into the reservoir and the afterbay.  Yes, there is a reason for everything, especially for taking the scenic route and not sticking to the known or to convention :)

Judge for yourself - was it worth it?



Sunday, July 17, 2016

Progress - stop the multiplying

Well I think that we might finally have got into the depths of those dark recesses where all the multiplying has been taking place.  This weekend we got serious about getting items together to take to Colorado for Karen and Karl - now we have emptied the safe, shredded the contents, pictures are off the wall and some memories relinquished to recycle and garbage - the memories are stored in our minds, we don't need the weight of their physical storage.

The NuWave oven and Shark Steam Mop have been sold on Craig's List and even some spices and so on from the pantry have been put out to stock Karen's pantry.

Once all this has been moved out of the lounge into the car (is there going to be room for me ??) then we will be looking at a less stressful living environment.  The office is looking much clearer now and I can finally see that there is going to be room for the blow up mattress in there and the chance to turn it into a bedroom of sorts of Ian and Sian when they visit in a couple of months .. wow time is really passing, it is half way through July now so that means it is only 6 or 7 weeks until that amazing summer holiday that we have been planning all year. Although we are down sizing and getting rid of as much as possible, we bought a couple of new pillows yesterday - they were on sale at an amazing give-away price so at least Ian and Sian will have nice new pillows to rest their heads on.  Gerald gets through pillows a couple of times a year so these are not going to be wasted at all and with the compression bags that we got with our Amazon special purchase, they are going to squish up to next to nothing.

The closet in the bedroom is looking much emptier now and the closet in the office has enough room for Ian and Sian to put their clothes - not that we are going to be here much with the road trip to Las Vegas taking most of our time.

Yes, we are definitely beginning to see signs of getting there.

We are also thinking about taking a weekend to make a 'border run' during October or November - a trial run across the border into Mexico to see how it goes and prepare ourselves for the real thing.

Sunday, July 10, 2016

Update July 10th 2016

Some of our preparations are not planned and they are usually the ones that involve meeting people, striking up conversations about what we are going to be doing - they are the really fun ones!
The other day we were in our favorite local Jallisco tapateria and we were the only people eating there - we had a great conversation with Karla who works there.  She actually drives to her home in Manzanillo in the state of Colimo on the Pacific side of Mexico, twice a year.  Her journey usually takes her about 21 hours and she has no problems - of course the Mexican plates on her car and the fact that she is actually Mexican helps her a lot but still she has not encountered any of the bandits and tricksters that we are always being warned about by other tourists.  I have researched Manzanillo as well as the city of Chapala that she talked about and they are both very interesting places.  She did warn us not to linger in the small towns along the way - fill up and get going again - the cities are usually OK.

We have got excited about our journey again and some of the fear is waning again :)

We are also working again on clearing out things that we will not be able to (and not need to) take with us - Today (7/10/2016) we started working on the boxes and computers and so on in the office - this is two-fold, the stuff needs to go to new homes and we need the room to make a bedroom of sorts for Ian and Sian in less than two months.  Gerald is now so keen to sort this stuff out that he was awake at 5 this morning thinking about it and started working on sorting bits and pieces out in the office before 7 this morning - wow, this is getting intense!  Now we have 3 'piles' - for Karl, for Karen and for Salvation Army.  We still have a long way to go but we are beginning to see progress now - can't say the same for the living room with these piles of stuff !  The plan is to load up the car and drive to Colorado on 19th - wow less than 2 weeks away - the we have a day to visit Gerald's colleagues in Fort Collins, a day for Karen and Karl and then another 2 day drive to get home again.  We are really looking to the Colorado trip, not only for the ability hand over some items, but also just because it will be great to see the kids and even better to get away after the intense, stressful weeks that we have been spending working 60+ hrs a week under pressure.  Sure we will probably have to pay for it when we get back but it will be so nice to get away.

Our shopping list is also getting actioned, helped out a couple of days ago by selling the nu-wave oven and the steam mop - we used that money to buy some items that we will need to take with us.  So we ordered emergency triangles, red reflective tape, a bluetooth speaker (music is so important wherever we are going to be staying) and a few storage bags, the kind that you compress things in without using a vacuum cleaner or anything.  More progress !

Stay tune - this is all fun (stressful, painful at times but fun nonetheless).  We are getting even more in tune with each other and how to handle these situations, than ever before.  It is interesting how stressful situations can bring us even closer together - OK it doesn't start off that way - we stress, we get irritable but we draw breath, look at each other, smile with love, talk about it and just get closer.  It is wonderful to be able to pull together instead of pull apart.

Sunday, June 19, 2016

Pattyns on Travelling Mexico and Central America

Preparations:

Since we are going to be blogging about all our wonderful adventures in the retirement that we have (literally) been waiting for a lifetime for, I thought that the best place to start would be at the planning beginning.  The beginning really is the dreams and whimsical thoughts that we all allow to flutter around in our brains, the daydreams, the thoughts of what would I rather be doing?  However, lets be practical, that blog would have started many years and a vast number of pages ago.  

Preparations is the part that so often gets overlooked, when you read about peoples adventures, about how they drove across Mexico or into Central America, do you get to be privy about how they put it all together before they started out?  I haven't seen anything like that yet so here is my version.

Get rid of the stuff that is trapping you into one place.

We started with an attitude change and a big adjustment in lifestyle.  We balance each other in that he is a pack-rat and I am a minimalist so this first stage was much easier and less traumatic for me that it was for my dear patient husband.  As the owners of a 2400 square foot house in one of the best parts of a Montana small town, we had a comfortable home with a yard that we loved, nice furniture in a 4 bedroom, 3 1/2 bathroom newer house with 2 car garage.  We were gathering 'stuff' in that big home because with just the 2 of us, there was initially plenty of room.  It is amazing how quickly you gather more "things", parents pass and it is difficult to part with memories, then you need a new china cabinet to hold those family pieces - it snowballs and it keeps you there because it is easier to stay than to let go and move on.  We did move on, we had a few garage sales, several trips to Goodwill and even a couple of trips to the dump.  When we sold the house, we even sold quite a bit of the furniture with it so were ready for the next step - all our belongings in a 16' rental truck and a 3 day trip from Montana down to San Antonio Texas.

In San Antonio we now have a little 2 bedroom apartment and no garage - we are realizing that we still have more 'stuff' than we need.  Recent floods were another wake-up call as to the real value of possessions, I felt so sorry for those who lost everything in the flood and realized that it doesn't hurt if you don't have anything that you really can't live without.

Now that we are in the stage of turning dreams into goals, we have just signed another lease on the apartment for 13 months and decided that is it - when that lease is up we are going to retire and be ready for the adventure of a lifetime.  We have already started the second downsize phase and it is much easier this time, there is less emotion involved because we know that if it doesn't fit in the car, it either holds us back or it doesn't come with us.  Well we are going so the stuff has to go. Now don't misunderstand, we never had a place jam packed with stuff, but still we had a bit more that we really needed - I mean, you can only bake in so many casserole dishes at a time and we can only use one drill at a time and are we even using it now that we are not home owners?  This time we have used Craig's List (much better response in San Antonio than in small town Montana) and have been making some fine donations to Salvation Army.  We also spent a day at Trader's Village and had a wonderful time meeting people and chatting with other traders and anyone else that wanted to talk.  This gave us a better insight into what our future life is going to be like because we are going to be driving through Mexico,and Central America down to Panama.  Life is going to be total immersion of the local culture, we want to live like locals and absorb as much of as many different cultures as we can.  We don't know where we are going to end up but we do know that we are going to have fun getting there and we will know where we want to spend more time, when we get there !

Less Tangible Stuff to get rid of

We had a time-share that we had not had time to make much use of and we were very happy to trade it in as part payment for a travel agency plan with reduced rate hotels, flights etc.  Now the fun part really begins because we had points that we had to use up.  What better way to start retirement and our life adventure than having a vacation of a lifetime using those time-share points.  We spent a good half a day planning our trip through Mexico making use of time-share weeks - we had four to use.

Cross 1 item off the To-Do list - vacation weeks booked and documented.  Our weeks are going to be in Mazatlan; Puerto Vallarta; Acapulco and finally Cancun.  Needless to say there are several days travelling between some of those vacation weeks so another good day has been spent planning the route going for cheaper option hotels through the new Travel Agency plan that we bought into.

With a whole year still to go, the excitement is already building as I start looking at all the old colonial towns and where we will probably spend a couple of days exploring archaeological sites (I wanted to be an archaeologist among other things when I was a kid).

Update 6/16/2016
Believe it or not, one of the most difficult parts of the cleansing process is getting rid of paperwork - we have religiously filed 'necessary' documents, memorable documents, years of printed copies of our tax returns and more stuff than I can to think about.  We spent a stressful day shredding a couple of weekends ago but there is still a safe and a large lateral filing cabinet full of documents and all those cards, invites and other mementos that ust beg to be kept.  This is the one area that causes friction between us - getting rid of so much even though we are already down to so little.  Today with 9 month still to go (6/19/2016) we made a breakthrough by agreeing that we each have 2 suitcases and 1 computer bag that we will be able to take with us.  Suddenly it is so much easier to wage that shredding battle and we got rid of a huge sack full of shredded documents - sure we still have a lot to do but not nearly as much.  We are so lucky that we are living in a digital age and are using the cloud to store digital documents - we will need to set aside some serious time to scan photographs and store them out on the cloud so that we can dispose of the printed copies of them too.  The battle continues but we are stronger.

Auto insurance
https://customer.sanborns.com - I did a quote here at Sanborns Mexico Insurance and came up with a premium of $439.41 for 182 days with coverage of Liability: $300,000 - $150,000 Excess Limit and $20,000 Medical Limit with $500 Physical Damage and $1,000 Theft deductibles (10%)

What do you really need to take with you.

Another great part of the preparation stage was looking for a water purification system to take with us - that took us into REI where we had a VERY long chat with a rock climber who works there.  We swapped stories of adventures and upcoming adventures, of what his experiences have been driving in Mexico and how we plan to cope with different scenarios.  

Cultural Preparation

We want to fit in and don't want to go on our travels being 'those arrogant Americans' so we are learning Spanish.  There are several very good free online language sites and I have found that after reaching a certain level with one course, I am using other courses at the same time. This is helping to prevent any sort of boredom and complacency as well as ensuring that I get the exposure and understanding of several dialects.  Having paid out previously for a very well known language course, I really prefer the free ones that I am currently working with (Memrise and SpanishDict).

Gather Information wherever we go

International Living is an invaluable resource - I seriously advise subscribing to their daily postcards and buying into the monthly magazine for at least a year - it is not at all expensive and they constantly have special offers on subscription.  Try to attend at least one of the many conferences that they have in various venues - some in the US and others on  location in Central America.

While following email links about travel and vacation offers, it is amazing how much information can be picked up.  For example, when clicking on a link for a vacation in Mazatlan, I found this information at the resort site:
Mazatlan Cathedral 
This large 19th-century cathedral, right in the heart of Old Mazatlán, has high, yellow twin towers, a dramatic interior and some beautiful statues. Built from 1875 to 1890, it faces the Plaza Principal, which has lush trees and a bandstand.

WikiHow is also invaluable - there are so many articles with conflicting information everywhere - at times some of these articles have almost made me wonder if we are mad taking on this adventure, being advised how unsafe it is to drive in Mexico.  The other day I came across an article that said stop reading those, stop reading all the dire warnings put out by the state department because they are over-dramatized (this from a resident of one of the 'most dangerous areas in Mexico').  Today I came across this WikiHow article when searching about driving in Mexico - interesting read even if it is filled with huge unnecessary photographs of speedometers etc.  http://www.wikihow.com/Drive-in-Mexico-Without-Getting-Into-Trouble

Health:

It looks look Hepatitis A, Typhoid and Tetanus shots will be needed with possibly Diptheria and Rabies when visiting rural areas.

Water in bottles or marked 'drinking/sterilized water' can be drunk without precautions. All other water should be boiled or sterilized before consuming. Milk in major cities, hotels and resorts is pasteurized, otherwise it will probably be unpasteurized. Travelers concerned about drinking unpasteurized milk will find powdered or tinned milk readily available. Only eat well-cooked meat and fish, cooked vegetables and peeled fruit.

ECUADOR


Drive the magnificent Avenue of the Volcanoes between Cuenca and Quito (45 plane trip).  Both great expat locations.  Cuenca has the biggest expect community in a city with a small town feel and laidback attitude - quaint and somewhat isaled until more recently.  Same resources as the larger city of Quito, just less of them and most close between 1 and 3.  Quito's expat community is more spread throughout the city.

Tips:
Carry small change - if you pull out a $20 you will probably have to wait for the vendor to go and find someone with change.

Don't open a bank account until you know where you will live - best to have one close to home and have a personal relationship with your banker.
There are only 2 banks in Ecuador that can accept direct deposits of US Social Security benefits : Banco Guayaquil and Produbanco

Tips (servicio or propinas) may already be added to bill - check before adding another tip.

Water and property tax bills etc won't be delivered to you - it is up to you to find out when they are due and go to the proper office to pay them .

Quito

is the capital in northern Andes (9,350 feet)
Hospital Metropolitano is one of the highest rated in all of Latin America.

Cuenca

in the southern Andes (8400 feet).

Staying a while in Ecuador?

A couple can join IESS, the Ecuador subsidized healthcare system—that covers all your healthcare cost, including prescriptions—for just $81 a month? It's true...and you'll be accepted no matter your pre-existing conditions.

Virtual Mail

US Global Mail (owned by Google) - $10/mth INDIVIDUAL $15/mth family
scanning at a fee???  this sounds expensive


Stuff to Take?

Our USB Travel Monitor monitor is going to be a boon to use with our laptops, as is the foldable little windows keyboard that we picked up recently.

Sawyer Mini Water Filter - handles 100,000 gallons - $24.95 @ REI or $17.80 @ Amazon


Deflecto Early Warning Road Safety Triangle Kit, Reflective, 3-Pack $19.98


3M Scotchlite Reflective Tape, Red, 2-Inch by 36-Inch $6.81


Space Saver No Vacuum Bags by Acrodo: 5 Jumbo, 5 Large Rolling Bags for Travel $19.97

Guatamala Volunteering

Another lead while enjoying some time in REI again (what a great place with a great bunch of people to talk about this type of thing with).  Quetzaltrekkers.com an all volunteer operation funding a school and home for street kids in the area and kids at risk of becoming street kids.  This is such an exciting possibility for us but I think we are a bit old for the hiking part because they are all much younger than us and more into sleeping out in the bush.  What we are really excited about it helping out in the school and home - I can put my teaching literacy skills back into practice, 

Gerald can use his extreme patience skills with the older kids and I can share hugs as needed with the younger ones as well as teach English.

http://www.quetzaltrekkers.com/xela/volunteer-at-escuela-de-la-calle/

To apply, contact EDELAC directly at edelacxela@gmail.com
Resources:
La Cortesia etc: http://www.123teachme.com/learn_spanish/good_manners


Expat in Ecuador

Bits and Bobs: We also bought a very handy corkscrew/bottle opener which is much better than the one we have now and much better for travelling as the screw is not exposed and it neatly collapses to the size of a very small pocketknife.  Got to make sure that we have the important things covered :)